As its name implies, it’s a site where many gay men go to find casual sexual encounters. alone and 400,000 unique visitors a month. It’s one of the most popular gay websites in the world, with 1 million registered members in the U.S. Unless you’re a gay man, that’s to be expected. Two weeks ago, news emerged that the co-founder of the website had contributed $2,300 to the presidential campaign of John McCain.